Tuesday, October 12, 2021

Candor: Getting To What Matters


Candor: Getting To What Matters
Takeaways
“Lack of candor in business blocks smart ideas, fast action and good people contributing all they’ve got. It’s a killer.” Jack Welch
Developing Candor and Trust
What it Means
The absence of candor is the single biggest roadblock keeping companies from being effective. Candor, that is, an open culture of frank, sincere and exhaustively honest talk, breaks through political bias and gets to the heart of what really matters. It means surfacing and sharing information broadly and transparently, giving the real reason for decisions, rather than spinning each message to suit a different audience, and most important of all, always letting team members know where they stand.
Why it Matters
·         Candor builds trust.
·         Candor gets more people in the conversation, and when you get more people in the conversation you generate richer ideas.
·         Candor generates speed. Ideas can be debated rapidly, expanded, enhanced and acted upon when everyone has the same information.
·         Candor breaks through office politics. It eliminates the time team members spend jockeying for position, vying for attention and using information to increase their own power.
·         Candor cuts costs.
·         Without candor, team members have little idea where they stand in terms of their own performance.
Action Plan
How Candor and Transparency Build Trust
Behind candor is transparency and authenticity. A transparent culture invites everyone into the game and fosters an openness that builds self-confidence and trust, not to mention improves the speed at which an organization can move. It allows people to share information openly rather than hoarding it, allowing for faster action. As a leader, it will help you set the tone for your team and enables you to give credit where it is due by letting people know where they stand and how the business is doing.
Your Starting Point
It’s simple—candor unclutters.
As you start to think about your organization, your team and your own personal behavior, you will quickly realize how unnatural it can be to speak your mind at all times. This section will prepare you to develop this trait by guiding you through some concrete action steps.
1.      What factors can lead to a lack of candor and what happens when that occurs?



2.      How candid and transparent is my organization? Do managers, leaders and team members speak honestly and openly with each other as a matter of habit?




3.      Do my team members trust me to tell them the truth and to be honest when I deliver news regardless of whether the news is good or bad? How do I know?



4.      When I catch myself not being candid with someone, do I stop to ask myself why not? What is motivating my lack of transparency?


5.      How would I feel if I found out that my boss was not being candid with me about my performance or in responding to ideas that I had about building our business?


6.      If I could change one thing to promote more honest and open dialog among my team, it would be?



Quick Wins
·         Start by acknowledging your own mistakes (and yes, we all make mistakes!). Be the first one to step up and publically say, “I messed up and this is how I’m going to fix it.” And do it consistently—yes, you will have more than on opportunity. When your team hears you talking openly about something that went wrong, and was your fault, it clears the path for them to do the same.

·         Do what you say you’re going to do.


·         Seek help when you need it. This shows that you, like anyone else, can’t do everything on your own all the time. This might not seem like an obvious display of candor, but it demonstrates that you trust that your team members to stop and show support. It sends a clear message that you’re all in this together, and that you expect them to do the same when they need help.

·         Don’t confuse practicing candor with being abrupt or abrasive. This is not an excuse to be rude or humiliate co-workers in public. You should aim to practice candor in the warmest, most humane, most respectful way possible.

·         Resolve that being less than truthful is not an act of kindness; it’s an act of cowardice.

·         Demonstrate candor in the next meeting you lead by praising the team members who clearly speak their mind.

·         Talk about it. Tie it to a value in your organization. Make it a part of your culture that will be recognized and rewarded. Discuss the benefits of candor and transparency with your team and the processes you want to start using. Be consistent and be repetitive. Don’t assume that everyone will just pick it up.

Establish a “Candor Model”
Having a model and common language around the behaviors you are trying to instill in your team can add substance to the process. Models help people articulate where they are in solving a problem and set expectations that open issues must actually get resolved and not just “sit out there” indefinitely.
The candor model: “surface, debate, improve, decide” – isn’t just an advantage; it’s a necessity.
Surface
Surface
When you see something that looks or feels wrong, make a point to address it publically. Acknowledge that there is an issue that has been identified and that needs to be fixed.
Debate
Get the discussion on the table. Review both sides and don’t assume that one side is right. Encourage competing points of view on what’s not working and why.
Improve
The purpose of having open candid discussions is to move things to a better place, not to assign blame. Always keep things focused on what needs to be done to make it better.
Decide
Don’t get caught in a never-ending debate cycle. Make a decision on the best approach and move on. Great leaders have “edge;” the ability to make tough decisions.
Game Pages
Candor: Getting To What Matters
Developing candor and trust doesn’t just happen because you’re the boss and you say so. It is a process that you have to lead and infuse into your organizational culture in a structured way. How much time it takes depends on how clear and consistent you are in your messaging and how much you see the example yourself. But it can be done. In fact, if you’re going to create a winning team—it must be done!
Candid Discussions
Surface
Issue to be resolved (clear summary statement of the problem):




Key data to be discussed (past actions and outcomes):



Specific improvement options (choices with pros and cons listed):



Decision on action steps (including timelines, owners and resources needed):



Team Survey
Lack of candor
Withholding comments or criticism (for each: circle where the team is on the spectrum)
Keeping mouth shut to make people feel better or avoid conflict
Sugarcoating bad news to maintain appearances
Hoarding information
Bureaucracy, layers, politicking, false politeness
Decisions being made behind closed doors
Candor in Action
Straightforward communication
All views on the table
Talking about the world realistically
Ideas being debated from every angle
Honest performance appraisal
Many people involved in the conversation

What two areas are the best to focus on?
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Five tactical items to start creating a culture of candor, transparency, and trust
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