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Leo III’s devout Christian piety, courage, and studied, unapologetic understanding of Islam, and the tactics of jihad warfare, which enabled him to be the “architect” of the devastating triumph over an enormous Muslim jihadist army at Constantinople in August, 718. Correspondence
Accolades, roles, performance, rewards, compensation, remuneration, team-strength, projects, unique cross-cultural experiences are things we all feel good about. They are good because of God’s favor upon us. When we start to have the same mindset of Christ who being in very nature God did not consider equality with God, we are sure to make a difference.
As we develop our people especially through our coaching relationship we help them think through and generate their own solutions. And one of the most difficult and challenging moments that we can encounter is to quickly bridge and tell them from ‘our experience’ what they ought to be doing? Does it help them move-forward? Pause for a moment and think ‘When you thought of your own solutions when someone asked you some powerful questions, how did you feel?’ Empowered isn’t it? That’s a great gift you can offer to your people and teams. In times when our people are struck and are disempowered, they need our empathy, care, support and our belief in them that they can think-through! And this is what makes Coaching different from training, mentoring, counselling and consulting. In a coaching relationship it’s all about the person who is being coached and not about the coach. How does humility help really?
It helps us listen and question better: It’s about our team, so we get involved and intertwined in their stories, getting to help them to help themselves. We are listening not to ask smart questions but questions in the flow that can help them seek deeper.
It helps us build patience: As we learn to put others first, we also understand and bear up when they fail us, it’s hard but that’s what our Lord did with His disciples
It helps us have genuine relationships: Having a heart of humility helps our people to freely approach us, tell us everything trusting us even with their vulnerability. In turn humility helps us give time to them. Have you ever wondered how our Lord was able to spend time with his disciples?
Humility is our natural response to God and people around us when we think about who we are in Him.
Prayer: Father, all I have is yours, thank you for your favor! May I be a faithful steward in building relationships too! Amen!
Below, we summarize some of the highlights from science and industry behind each of the four pillars of PERK.
Purpose
UC Berkeley management professor Morten Hansen, in his 2018 book Great at Work Opens in new window, defines purpose this way: “You have a sense of purpose when you make valuable contributions to others (individuals and organizations) or to society that you find personally meaningful and that don’t harm anyone.”
Our purpose is a reflection of our core values, and we feel more purposeful at work when our everyday behaviors and decisions are aligned with those values. As individuals, bringing more passion and purpose to work Opens in new window can mean asserting ourselves in formulating and conducting our day-to-day tasks—connecting what we do to what we believe in and care about—rather than passively embracing the status quo. For example, if you value equality and diversity, you can make a point of collaborating with people of different backgrounds from yours.
For leaders, you may be tempted to use financial incentives to try to instill more purpose in your employees, but it probably won’t work. In his book Payoff Opens in new window, behavioral economist Dan Ariely reveals that cash bonuses only go so far; his studies suggest that what we really crave are intrinsic incentives like appreciation and making meaningful progress. As Swarthmore professor Barry Schwartz explains Opens in new window, we want to see how our progress is tied to meaningful, important, and self-transcendent impact in the world.
At the level of the organization, the Patagonia Opens in new window outdoor retail company instills core values of conservation and family into their workplace culture by sourcing environmentally sound materials for their products, discouraging excessive purchases in their marketing campaigns, and providing on-site child care and flexible return-to-work schedules for new parents. If you are in a position of influence, you can promote purpose by making core values explicit at the workplace, and implementing policies that align people’s day-to-day experiences with core values.
Engagement
Do you generally enjoy your work? Are you part of the decisions about what, when, and how you do things at work? How often do you feel curious or deeply immersed and lose track of time while working? Do you feel like you can be effective and get things done?
According to recent reports Opens in new window, a majority of working people around the world say no to questions like these, indicating that engagement at work is troublingly low.
There are three main ways to increase engagement at work Opens in new window. First, fold in some playfulness, creativity, and levity—like Southwest Airlines does. The company has earned a reputation for prioritizing fun; for example, employees are invited to infuse humor and zeal into routine flight announcements.
Second, give people more ownership over their day-to-day schedule, tasks, and professional development, and build in opportunities to learn and grow. New employees at Logitech, Zappos, and Davita participate in multi-day onboarding events that include fun social activities and “job crafting Opens in new window”—an exercise in reflecting on your personal strengths and the collaborative dimensions of your job, and envisioning the most fitting, appropriately challenging, collegial, and growth-focused work experience. For example, an employee who scores high in zest might take on organizing employee team-building activities.
Finally, adopt a less draconian, hectic schedule and make space for the immersive, lose-track-of-time experience of flow at work Opens in new window. To do this, some companies are shifting away from the typical hyperbusy, multitasking, always-available, device-notification-laden, meeting-clogged schedule—and at the same time encouraging off-work downtime. Some are even barring work-related emails Opens in new window after-hours to help people relax and recover, and to leave them refreshed for uninterrupted periods of “deep work” at work.
Resilience
The ability to handle, adapt to, and productively learn from setbacks, failures, and disappointments is critical to overall happiness at work. Resilience doesn’t mean trying to prevent difficulties, stifle stress, or avoid confrontation; it means being able to manage challenges at work with authenticity and grace.
To strengthen your own resilience at work, perhaps the most promising technique is to get better at real-time, in-the-moment awareness Opens in new window, or mindfulness. Mindfulness can be a starting point for revising our learned habits of self-criticizing or blaming others, or getting preoccupied about past or future upsets, that make it hard to manage difficult moments at work. Companies can weave mindfulness into their overall climate, as Adobe has done with Project Breathe Opens in new window.
Resilience at work is also tied to successfully detaching from work. That means taking time away to recover and pursue restorative, non-work-related wellness, social, creative, and perhaps charitable activities, both on a daily basis and through restful vacations.
Kindness
Finally, we’re happier at work when we tap into our innate tendency towards kindness—orienting our thoughts, feelings, and actions towards care for others and genuinely supportive social bonds. Being kind at work involves treating others with dignity and respect, extending empathy and compassion, practicing gratitude, and constructively managing conflicts Opens in new window.
A next step to kindness at work is practicing “prosocial” states like empathy, compassion, and gratitude. Empathy is the basis for understanding other people, and guides cooperative choices and effective teamwork Opens in new window. According to Northeastern professor David DeSteno, not only do compassion and gratitude increase kindness, they also help people succeed at their goals Opens in new window at work.
What happens when workplace relationships run into trouble? Research shows that apologizing, often considered a sign of weakness, is good for trust and, in turn, happiness at work. Apologies inspire greater respect and commitment in the people around you, and make organizations better at rebounding from setbacks Opens in new window.
Today, we still face surprisingly high levels of boredom, disengagement, chronic stress, turnover, and even cynicism—a reality that my parents knew all too well. But I believe in a different kind of work life, and I am not alone. Millennials agree Opens in new windowthat happiness at work, like happiness in life, is a basic human aspiration and, thus, the most attractive perk a workplace can offer. And research shows that happiness at work is essential to organizational success, entirely possible to foster, and well worth the investment and effort.
Emiliana R. Simon-Thomas, Ph.D., is the science director of the Greater Good Science Center.
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Insurance Technology: Business Innovation Powered by Technology;
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Scholastic Instructor
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A tax on toilet paper; I kid you not. According to the sponsor, "the Water Protection and Reinvestment Act will be financed broadly by small fees on such things as . . . products disposed of in waste water." Congress wants to tax what you do in the privacy of your bathroom.